10 Reasons You Always Have To Pee

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Your perception of "always" might be off.

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You really could have a small bladder.

It's a classic excuse among the frequent pee-ers: "I just have a small bladder!" Turns out, there's some truth to that seemingly odd refrain. "Anatomically, everybody can be different, just like some people are tall and some people are short," Greenleaf says. 

Most bladders hold about 2 cups of fluid. If you're going to the bathroom frequently and producing less than that, that's probably not normal, says Dr Tamara Bavendam. And yes, you should actually measure. Grab a container and see if you're hitting 1.5 to 2 cups, she says. (Just maybe wait until you're home alone to do that science experiment.)

The good news for the small bladdered is that you can train your bladder to hold more fluid. "When it's full, it can stretch," Greenleaf says. In tests of bladder capacity, teachers and nurses—people with limited time to take themselves to the toilet, for obvious reasons—consistently rank the highest, she says. "Some people have this idea that it's not good to hold urine in, so when they get the urge they run to the bathroom," Greenleaf says. "That's the opposite of stretching. If you give into the urges too often, you are training the bladder not to hold as much." (Just don't hold it so long that it starts to hurt.) You could be inadvertently doing this if you've preemptively started emptying your bladder more frequently in just-in-case scenarios, like in hopes of warding off leakage, say, before a workout, Bavendam says. "A change in your habits to try to prevent leakage can contribute to this cycle of going more and more often, and then you feel like you need to go frequently."

To train your small bladder to bulk up, Greenleaf recommends something called "timed voiding":
• Urinate every 30 minutes for a day or two, whether you have to go or not.
• Add 15 minutes to the regimen: Urinate every 45 minutes for a day or two.
• Keep adding 15 minutes to this regimen, until over time you will have stretched the bladder out.

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You're drinking too little water.

Yes, really. Understandably, if you spend a lot of time thinking you have to pee, you might be inclined to dehydrate yourself just a touch. If you don't drink as much, you won't have to go as often, right? Turns out this way of thinking is bladder sabotage. "When you drink less, the urine becomes more concentrated, and the more concentrated it is the more irritating it can be to the bladder, which can trigger the sensation that you have to go more often," Greenleaf says. "It you drink more fluids, you may actually be able to hold more, because the more dilute the urine is the less irritating it is to the bladder."

Of course, you'll also be rushing to pee if you really overdo it on the water, so just drink enough to keep your urine a light, straw-coloured yellow, Bavendam says.

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You have an infection or kidney stones.

Both a urinary tract infection and the little crystal formations known as kidney stones can irritate the bladder (in the case of stones, it's when they pass through the urinary tract and approach the bladder), increasing how often you feel you have to pee. Both usually also come with other symptoms, so you should get a hint that something's up. "Usually a kidney stone will cause a lot of pain in the back or sides," Bavendam says. "Typically with UTIs, the classic sign is urgency, feeling like you need to pee really badly, and it also usually hurts to urinate."

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You should hit the (pelvic floor) gym.

The stronger those down-there muscles, the easier it is to hold urine in, Greenleaf says. "A lot of women really don't know how to tighten or relax the pelvic-floor muscles," Bavendam says. Classic mistake: You get a strong urge to go and you literally run to the loo. "When you're running, your body's focused on running, not using your muscles to hold urine in your bladder," she says. "Instead, it's better to learn how to use your muscles to tighten the pelvic-floor area, let the urge subside, and walk to the bathroom."

Yes, we're talking about Kegel exercises. If you don't already know, the exercises are performed by tightening and releasing the muscles you'd use to stop the flow of urine without moving anything else in your body. You can get the full scoop here. (Here are 5 kegel exercise mistakes you're probably making.)

This is especially useful advice for women after pregnancy and childbirth. Miraculous milestones, sure, but both can do very real damage and stretching to muscles and tissue, including the bladder. There's evidence women would fare better in the urinary department if more attention was paid to recovery, Bavendam says. "If you injured your leg muscle, you would work at rehabilitating it, but that has never been a part of the standard practice after childbirth," she says. "Yes, a doctor might tell you to do your Kegels, but how does a woman really figure that out amongst taking care of her child and going to work? It can have a tremendous impact, but it has to be prioritised as being important to a woman's long-term health." 

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Your bladder is legit overactive.

If you're going a lot more often than every few hours, 8 times a day, you might qualify as having an overactive bladder. It's a condition more and more women find themselves in as they age, possibly because our nerves age along with us, Greenleaf says. We're more likely to have other medical conditions that also affect how often we've gotta go, she explains, including back problems that could lead to vertebrae pushing on nerves that then make the bladder feel full.

Your doctor might want to test the strength of your stream or use an ultrasound to see if your bladder is emptying completely, Bavendam says. "An even more sophisticated test can measure bladder pressure for people who have had unexplained symptoms for a long time," she says. If pelvic floor exercises and adjusting fluid intake don't make a difference, prescription meds might help the bladder relax into holding more urine. 

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You already take other meds.

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You could have diabetes.

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You’re freezing.

When the temperature drops, your body wants to do everything in its power to keep you warm. "Part of that process involves constricting the blood vessels in your extremities, to keep body heat from leaving," Greenleaf says. But, she says, “the body is a unit.” Constricted vessels in your feet, hands, legs, and arms shifts more blood to your core, which increases blood pressure in the vessels there. Then, your body reacts to that elevated blood pressure, wanting to normalise it. It does this by getting rid of extra fluids, just like some common meds for high blood pressure, in a process called diuresis. “Because you are physically making more urine, the bladder is filling more quickly and frequently, so you need to pee more,” Greenleaf says. When it’s all due to the weather? Cold diuresis.

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Something more serious is going on.