Long before we get our first pimple, budding breasts remind us that we're women in training. We love them, we hate them. We want them to grow bigger, we wish they'd stop growing, we wonder why this one is smaller/bigger/rounder/flatter than the other, why men are staring at them—and why they're not.

No matter how conflicted we may be, breasts are part of our female identity, which may be why, for most of us, having breast cancer is our biggest fear. We're more afraid of it than we are of heart disease, which is 10 times more likely to be what sends us to the great beyond.

Yet fewer women get breast cancer, and fewer die from it, than ever before. "Cancer is not an inevitability. Women have more control over the disease than they think," says Dr Margaret I. Cuomo. "Everything we do from the moment we wake—from what we eat and drink to whether or not we exercise and avoid BPA, parabens and other carcinogenic chemicals—is a factor that can turn on or off the genetic switches in our bodies, including ones that could lead to cancer. The risk of many cancers, including breast cancer, can be significantly reduced by living a healthy lifestyle." There are also new ways to improve your risk profile, including becoming aware of the geography of your breasts and tracing your dad's family history, not just your mum's. You won't eliminate risk altogether; the biggest risk for breast cancer is being a woman. But you may be able to dramatically slash your chance of developing the disease. Here's where to start.

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